Understanding virulence remains a central problem in human health, pest control, disease ecology and evolutionary biology. Bacterial virulence is typically quantified by phenomenological indicators such as the LT50 (i.e. the time taken to kill 50% of an infected population). However, virulence emerges as a result of complex processes that occur at different stages: the pathogen needs to breach the primary host defenses, find a suitable environment to replicate, and finally express the virulence factors that cause lethality. It is well-known that pathogens exhibit a very broad spectrum of strategies to accomplish these three tasks, yet, phenomenological indicators such as the LT50 cannot distinguish the ability of the pathogen to invade the host from its ability to kill the host. Here, we propose a physical host-pathogen theory that shows how to disentangle colonization, growth, and pathogen lethality from the survival kinetics of a host population. Experimental data from Caenorhabditis elegans nematodes exposed to various human pathogens shows that host mortality becomes severe only once the pathogen population has reached its carrying capacity within the host. In the talk, I will present our theory and compare predictions against experimental data.